A Girl in the River: The Price of Forgiveness: Oscar Award Winning documentary
Produced by: Sharmeen Obaid-Chinoy
Where you can find it: Youtube, HBO
Brief Description:
A Girl in the River: The Price of Forgiveness is a documentary that follows Saba, a 19 year old Pakistani woman who survives an honor killing by her dad and uncle. Saba was set to marry a man she loved but, her uncle disapproved so the family called off the wedding. Saba decided to marry the man anyways and is kidnapped by her father and uncles, beaten, shot, cut, and then thrown in the river left for dead. Saba managed to pull herself out of the river and survive. With her father and uncles in jail, Saba is being pressured to forgive her attacker so that they maybe set free from jail or repercussions.
My Thoughts:
This documentary was extremely heartbreaking. I didn’t thinking this is something I would play in any class younger than 8th grade. I think too often we expect happy endings and life isn’t always like that. This documentary was reminder that justice does not always prevail. Aside from the really sad content, this documentary really does make a statement and opens up the world to some practices that need to be brought attention to.
Pedagogical Response: Literary Criticism
When subjects like honor killings are brought up, it maybe easy to assume that that would be something everyone is against. Killing someone for what is the slightest display of “dishonor” just doesn’t seem logical. However, I was shocked to see in this film the women who justified this. In the documentary, Saba’s ow sister and mother justify her attempted murder by saying she did dishonor the family by getting married without consent. This begs the question of how deeply are these honor killings so rooted in the culture that the victims now defend the act? Throughout the documentary, Saba was getting pressured by her community to forgive her attackers and set them free. The court systems even allow a family member to forgive an attacker on behalf of the victim. It makes me wonder if the women that follow this do so because they live is a male dominated society where men have most of the power, or if this is something that is a perceived norm and something where we should be applying cultural relativity.